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Sasha Neal's avatar

That’s a heavy load Siobhan 😔 I don’t think I ever managed very much self care when I was in the thick of it, beyond going to bed early and doing the odd bit of writing or yoga. Even putting down a couple of sentences in my notes app would help. Someone older and wiser said to me that there are periods in life when all we can do is chop wood and carry water, and I think there is truth in that. But getting close to burnout is another thing and then I think it’s a case of having to ask hard questions like, are my efforts indispensable/irreplaceable in this given scenario, or could I outsource this aspect of a situation, and if so how. Love’s the engine of care as we all know, but saying no (when it’s possible to) is a form of self love too. If it’s not possible to do that I guess it’s back to enduring on until things change, which of course they do eventually

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Wendy Varley's avatar

Good to hear from you, Siobhan. The burnout after all you’ve been through is completely understandable. Glad you got that week away, but can well imagine its benefits quickly dissipate. So tough to be the one holding things together. So glad you found the head space to write.

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